You are about your own self. You belong to ‘you’ first and then the world. Find yourself within you. Often it involves conflict as you include others as part of ‘you’. Drop them. Remain with yourself. Just drop it all at once if it isn’t about you. And if the conflict is with and about yourself, it’s inevitable. Jut be. Learn from it. It will expire.
You will be mostly happy and peaceful when you are with yourself. Your freedom is all about becoming ‘you’.